If a woman has to choose between catching a fly ball and saving an infant’s life, she will choose to save the infant’s life without even considering if there are men on base. ~Dave Barry
When I was a kid, I saw a wonderful woman, who never thought about herself, always care for her children. She fought for her family so they could went through the economic problem in their life. She made cakes and sold it so her children could go to school and eat well. Tired would never exist in her head. She worked hand in hand with her husband so their children could get a well-suited life.
Now.. I still see her that way.. even in older appearance.. in her old age.. she would never say give up.. still wake up every morning to make breakfast.. still smile and say ‘be careful’ when her children need to do their activities everyday.. still say hello and say ‘how was your day?’ every night her children come home.. she would do anything to make her children happy.. and I still call her the same.. Mom… yes.. she is my lovely mom..
We know many women.. in our life.. our mom.. our teachers.. our neighbors.. many… as a man.. as a child.. as a student.. have we actually appreciated them?
As a man sometimes I could not understand woman.. what they want from us.. and what they exactly wanna do? I see them everyday.. sometimes quite.. sometimes laughing.. sometimes angry.. and most of the time gossiping about others.. haha
But no matter how irritating they are.. I must admit it , we (man) could not live without them.. haha can you imagine how our life turn to be when no woman around? and importantly I could not imagine if there are no woman in this world and we have to fall in love with other guy!! Oh My GOD! that’s awful right? (if you don’t agree then you are so gay!!) haha
Sigmund Freud, a psychotherapist, of of the famous one.. once said : “The great question that has never been answered, and which I have not yet been able to answer, despite my thirty years of research into the feminine soul, is ‘What does a woman want?'”
Even Sigmund Freud himself could not answer it…
So, in this writing.. I would make an open statements to all the women.. first would be.. Please say what you want in yes or no definition.. don’t use question.. don’t use signs! as we are men are actually dumb enough to interpret your meaning… don’t expect man even he got Phd. to understand what do you want if you don’t say it clearly.. hmmm for example see these dialogues :
The conversation took place in a boutique
Man : “so dear, what do you want for your birthday?”
Woman : “ummm.. what ever you buy for me.. I will be very happy.”
Man : “then I will buy you this pretty dress..”
Woman : “hei! I don’t like this one.. I don’t like that one either.. that one also.. let’s go to another store” (usually more expensive store)
Man : “aaaaarghh.. you said you’d like anything I bought???”
The other conversation
Woman : “what do you think about my hair?”
Man : “You looked terrific dear.. as always.”
Woman : “Thank you.. but I think I’m getting a little bit fat lately”
Here comes the Dilemma…
If the man say :”I think yes a little bit though..”
The woman would say : “WHATTTT!! so you think I’m fatt???”
If the man say :”mm no.. you looked beautiful to me..”
The woman would say : “you liar!! I’m fat you know!! go find another woman!”
aaarrgghhh Dear woman.. what do you want exactly? and where can we buy the dictionary if we don’t know what do you mean??
Second.. we men.. would love you just the way you are!! yes it’s true!! even we always like sexy women.. pretty girls in the mall and so on.. yes those are men! haha but we love you just the way you are.. so don’t do the diet so just you could wear sexy clothes.. don’t go to expensive salon just to do creambath.. and any other baths..
We would love you even you are having your bad hair day.. even when your emotion unstable when you got the PMS.. even when you are a little fatter.. it’s all okay!! we still love you.. all you have to do just believe in us.. 🙂
I as a man.. admit that without woman I could never be the way I am now.. from them I learned to be strong.. I learned not to be childish (as most of the men are childish).. I learned to love without condition.. adorable creature like you.. could make it all happen to us.. We always need your support when we are down.. need your hug… need your warm whisper saying everything’s gonna be okay.. and we always crave for your kiss to warm our heart! haha
As a man also, I sometimes say something in appropriate.. you know.. we men.. we usually joke to each other without thinking it would hurt anybody’s filling. Yes.. we men usually do it.. and I know we sometimes hurt your feeling just because we say you are fat.. you are ugly.. you are annoying.. but you know!! it’s the way we use to get your attention haha.. 🙂 and on behalf of the other man.. I would beg for your forgiveness.. we didn’t mean it.. truly!
Dear woman… I know some of us.. men.. are bastards! Yes I know… you deserved to get a gentle hug.. care.. sweet kiss from a man.. You deserved to be treated like a princess.. yes! I agree with this.. 🙂 you are the direction where we wanna go.. when we lost! and definitely.. you will be a mommy for our children.. and you will teach them how to live..
Like me.. Today.. I know how to live my life.. I know how to love.. even not perfect.. because I have a wonderful mom.. Thank you mommy and Thank you for all the women whose life never been appreciated… we men.. owe you our life! 🙂 This writing I dedicate to women I love in my life.. my Mom.. and You ………. 🙂
Women like silent men. They think they’re listening. ~Marcel Achard, Quote, 4 November 1956
Sure God created man before woman. But then you always make a rough draft before the final masterpiece. ~Author Unknown
What a great confession….:)